Sometimes when things don’t go our way, we get upset, and when somebody does things unaccordingly to you, you get upset. But you know what, most of the times we don’t know what is going through, like they don’t know what we are going through. And the problem is, we often assume too much too soon, when the reality isn’t exactly the way thought it is. Just because, we assume.

Assumption or some like to call it as “su’udzon” is kind of a little devil inside our head that gives us mostly the wrong idea about something or someone. When do you this too often, it’ll control your life with hate and dissapointments. When i get upset at something or someone i much much much prefer to think that “sometimes i win, sometimes i learn, or, i’m a big believer of blessing in disguise, because it keeps me positive. I believe not all relationship are meant to stay in our life, like for instance, good friendship. Because things only happen for a GOOD reason and that reason we may not find out now but perhaps tomorrow or the day after tomorrow. Because we don’t know the drama and struggle behind everyones daily life. So try your best to stay away from being su’udzon, and be kind anyway, because being kind goes a long way and it doesn’t cost a thing. #selfreminder – kekekania

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Sewaktu baca tulisan dari Kekekania (owner Chic and Darling) di Instagram, saya langsung ga bisa nahan untuk repost tulisannya. Saya ga bisa lebih setuju lagi dari ini.